
passage Cottin, Montmartre (photo by
Marta)
When my husband Andrew and I meet people here, French or otherwise, they often ask, "What brought you to Paris?" or simply "Why Paris?" I suppose it's a common question, the expat/immigrant equivalent of the American "So what do you do?" Usually when we're asked "What brought you to Paris," we smile at each other before answering, "Paris." We're here simply because we like it here. When you're self-employed and work online, as we do, one of the biggest perks is that you can live wherever you like (within legal limits, caveat, caveat).
One of the tradeoffs of self-employment is that the line between "work time" and "leisure time" becomes blurred, to put it mildly. I'm very pleased, for instance, to have started this little photoblog: in blogging I've found a real hobby: something that interests me purely for its own sake, and gets me out of the house to enjoy my new city. (And in the process, I get to "meet" fascinating people from all over the planet--more on that another time.)
For the better part of the past two years, we've been developing our new social news website,
APEsphere. For the first several months, we simply talked about it (amid a somewhat lunatic international courtship). As time wore on, we started working with a team of designers and developers (and got married and settled in to Paris in the process). As the launch date neared, we spent more and more hours hunched over our keyboards, developing, testing, and reading and writing content. We launched the site on January 20th, President Obama's Inauguration Day. To this Anglo-American couple, seemed a most auspicious launch date, particularly for a website whose mission is to help
create real and lasting change.
In building and launching APEsphere, we've spent hours (days) on end when we could have been living
anywhere, when we've barely seen the light of day, and haven't enjoyed the splendors of Paris at all. But when we do manage to back away from our keyboards and head out on the town, we're not just "anywhere." We're in Paris. Cosmopolitan, musical, lyrical, colorful, culinareriffic Paris. Where a simple stroll round the neighborhood is a sensual feast, and not just for the dog (although the dog, a former Manhattanite, adores Paris, in particular its boulangeries, street rotisseries, and cafes. In cafes, she is warmly greeted like a neighborhood celebrity). Often, when we Take the Day Off, we go see a film or an exhibit, or meet up with freinds. But just as often, we are likely to stroll "into town," that is, down the long slope from Montmartre to the Seine, and wander the vast network of Anglophone bookshops that dot central Paris. We peer in gallery windows and forbidden courtyards and decipher the city's historical markers. We get a coffee and watch the world go by. And we look at each other and giggle like children, and say, "we're in Paris." Although our Days Off are precious and few nowadays, they are full of riches. Therefore, we are rich. And people say Paris is expensive. Silly people.
If your work concerns critiquing your own culture, as ours does, it can be helpful to live outside it: living in Paris enriches our work as well as our leisure time. Standing outside Anglo-American culture gives us a new perspective. Juxtaposing French with Anglo-American customs and mores helps to unravel the mysteries of each.
The next question people ask, after "Why Paris?" is "How long do you plan to stay?" The answer is, indefinitely. Which is to say, we don't know. We may discover, down the line, that APEsphere needs to be run from New York or London, for example. But we're expecting what will inevitably be a French baby in July, and (s)he might have something to say on the subject. Which is to say we might not be expats so much as immigrants, a distinction that time alone can make. In the meantime, we'll keep working long hours as we expand our reader base (a bump from the Huffington Post yesterday didn't hurt--
Is Detroit Preparing to Bully Americans into Polluting?). And when we're not working, we'll keep enjoying the Movable Feast.